{"id":164,"date":"2018-08-01T02:07:07","date_gmt":"2018-08-01T02:07:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/?p=164"},"modified":"2019-06-22T03:44:21","modified_gmt":"2019-06-22T03:44:21","slug":"self-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/2018\/08\/01\/self-first\/","title":{"rendered":"Self First"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What we learn in recovery is to put self first. This doesn&#8217;t mean we wall off from all others and become self-seeking people &#8211; we just <strong>pause and consider our own needs first and then offer service\/support to others<\/strong>. We also learn in recovery to not JADE &#8211; Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain. <strong>We can just say what we mean, mean what we say, and don&#8217;t say it mean<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-165\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/serenity4me.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/saywhat.jpg?resize=296%2C253&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"296\" height=\"253\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Credit: Iamhere, Miracles In Progress<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What we learn in recovery is to put self first. This doesn&#8217;t mean we wall off from all others and become self-seeking people &#8211; we just pause and consider our own needs first and then offer service\/support to others. We also learn in recovery to not JADE &#8211; Justify, Argue, Defend or Explain. We can [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":165,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-164","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-care","entry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/serenity4me.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/saywhat-e1722569025218.jpg?fit=234%2C200&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":167,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164\/revisions\/167"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/165"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/serenity4me.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}