The Al-Anon books In All Our Affairs, From Survival to Recovery, and How Al-Anon Works all have a page on “A Special Word to Anyone Confronted with Violence.”
One of the statements is:
It is not necessary to decide how to resolve the situation once and for all—only how to get out of harm’s way until this process of Awareness, Acceptance and Action can free us to make choices for ourselves that we can live with.